Jul 21, 2022Member-onlyA Little Friendly Dating Site AdviceFor a brief time in the not-so-distant past, I dipped my toe into the overcrowded and awkward wading pool that is the modern-day dating site. In addition to that interesting experience, I am also a human on social media, which means that I have surely encountered countless many who believe…Dating Tips4 min readDating Tips4 min read
Jun 30, 2022Member-onlyI Miss The Early Days of Social MediaIf in 1998 you had told me that I would fondly look back on the screeching sound of dial-up internet, I would have laughed at you. Okay, so maybe I don’t miss the sound. Or the length of time it often took to visit various web pages. But man, those…Social Media4 min readSocial Media4 min read
Jun 1, 2022Member-only“Can I ask you something?”The above is a question that appears regularly in my DMs. As an admitted snarky bitch, I sometimes like to reply with “you just did.” Other times, I just say “sure.” …Internet Etiquette2 min readInternet Etiquette2 min read
May 25, 2022Member-onlyGuess Who is Writing About Breakups Again?I think this is becoming my thing... Before I elaborate, just let me start off by saying that I hate breakups. I’ve now experienced more than my desired share and I am hoping to never go through another one ever again! This particular uncoupling didn’t go well at all. I…Breakups6 min readBreakups6 min read
May 12, 2022Member-onlyThe Book I Couldn’t Have WrittenIn January of 2021, I was able to put a check next to my long time goal of authoring an actual book. After years of trying to hammer out some kind of semi-readable story, I finally found the discipline to do so in the form of a tale that may…Widow4 min readWidow4 min read
Apr 16, 2022Member-onlyLet’s Talk About FeedbackThe saying “everyone’s a critic” is truer for me lately, than ever before. I suppose that’s to be expected given the amount of writing that I’m putting out for the world to see. And judge. I mean, that’s cool. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and in no way…Criticism4 min readCriticism4 min read
Apr 14, 2022Member-onlyOutliving Our Late SpousesI have officially been alive on this planet longer than my now late husband. February 11, 2018 was the last day he ever saw, and it happened to be three months and one day after his 47th birthday. April 10th, 2022 was three months and one day after my 47th…Widow2 min readWidow2 min read
Apr 7, 2022Member-onlyPhone Psychic vs. Phone “Actress” : here’s the teaI’ve done both of these gigs. And while I definitely prefer one over the other, I actually don’t really like either one due to the fact that I find talking on the phone to be rather loathsome. (Please just text me!) To define some things, a Phone Psychic (typically called…Psychic4 min readPsychic4 min read
Mar 24, 2022Member-onlyFacebook Jail : A Cautionary TaleFacebook Jail : A Cautionary Tale I am becoming quite the little Facebook Jailbird. Like many, many others my personal Facebook account has been hit with several suspensions for things that I posted, long in the past. I have also been nabbed for calling out blatant misogyny; my comments, which…Facebook5 min readFacebook5 min read
Mar 15, 2022Member-onlyMy Love/Hate Relationship with Only FansMy Love/Hate Relationship with Only Fans In spite of my having penned a piece vehemently professing to the contrary, I found myself eating a little crow and joined the racy online content creating platform last Fall. There are many reasons why I chose to come out of grown-up entertainment retirement…Adult Entertainment3 min readAdult Entertainment3 min read
