Very friendly, positive article! I sometimes feel though, that not everything is going to be for everyone, regardless of how much study they put into it; and lack of enjoyment for certain things (anal included) does not mean that person is broken in any way. I found that my late husband would submit articles like this one to me, and when I still didn't enjoy it, it simply meant that I was the problem. I have since learned that some people are just never going to enjoy anal - and that's okay too.